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Being a gay is not an easy thing and most times it proves to be a great challenge because it is highly condemned by the society. You can imagine how frustrating it can get to search for a date in this discouraging environment. No man has a label on his forehead indicating that he is gay. For you to succeed in the gay dating scene you have to be strong at self identity. You chose to be gay and so you have to face all the challenges and live life to the fullest. A good life does not only constitute of a good career and good physical health. You can have this but if your social life is bogus you will not be happy. Learn how to rejuvenate your dating life.
The success in the dating scene especially as a gay person highly depends on the image you project to the public. Everything we do in life is the way it is because of our attitude. If you have positive attitude towards homosexuality, it will be reflected through how you talk and how you carry yourself around. Walk with confidence and and do not suggest insecurity. In the gay dating scene, you will realize that you tend to attract the people who are pleased by the signals you are sending. If you are not comfortable with the kind of guys who are attracted to you, mind to change your attitude. If you are the scaring type, try smiling a bit and if you give out signals of arrogance try loosening up a little.
Dating is all about what people think about you and if they find you attractive. Many people are desperate of changing their dating lifestyles. To succeed in this, i advice that you go through a session of self-reflection and adjust your image. This can take you along way in the gay dating scene. You can rarely find your Mr. Right if you have not fine tuned your search. Have a vision of what you want. Physical qualities are important but just do not stop there, look further into the demeanor or the personality of your perfect partner. Do not be so rigid in your choice adjust while you can. Do not go looking for pasta sauce in the frozen food sector. By this i mean you go where you can find what you want.
If you are targeting a guy from a certain class go to where they hang out. The world is an integrated place and people hang around with those who share their interests or background. If you are eyeing a body builder, spend your free time at the gym. Do not wait for the shining tiffany to find you. You might be disappointed. If you only wait to be approached, you might fail in the gay dating scene. Go an extra mile and get out of your comfort zone and approach a handsome man. If you are approaching a guy it is hard to tell whether they are gay or not. To avoid being slapped on the face, do not give out too much too soon. The details should unfold naturally after breaking the ice.
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Should I really be hurting this much?
I was just browsing the personals/profiles on some gay dating websites and saw lines like “Im not Racist but plz dont message if you are Asian or Indian..” and “into anyone not fat or Asian” from more than just a few ads.
After seeing them, I started feeling deeply depressed and disheartened then closed the website.
Question is; am I weird/strange for finding these things hurtful? If you were [insert race] and found racial exclusions, do you think it would affect you too?
Thanks.
Nope you aren’t weird or strange to be disheartened or hurt at closed mindedness. It is hurtful and those who practice it are too wrapped up in themselves to even care.
You know that you are a decent person and can’t figure out why someone else would rule you out because of something that in many cases you have no control over. It’s completely understandable
I have experienced prejudice in this way before. It’s hard, no doubt about it. You just gotta remind yourself that chances are you don’t really want to know that person if they judge people because of skin colour, religion or anything else like that.
Unfortunately you can’t change them … no matter how much you want to